Anthony's Story

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There is only positive energy allowed in Tiny Light Anthony’s life. His family has even adopted an uplifting motto - “good times are coming one day at a time”. 


After a normal pregnancy and delivery, at just 3 days old, Anthony had a 7 minute long seizure. His parents were devastated to find out their first child had suffered a stroke in utero. Even now, doctors still aren’t sure of a diagnosis or what the long-term future holds. 


Anthony has developmental delays affecting several parts of his body. He has a form of Cerebral Palsy, which means he can’t walk, sit or crawl without support. He needs to be tube fed through his stomach. His vision is impaired and he is non-verbal. Anthony is on a cocktail of medication to control epileptic seizures. 


Through it all, this lovable 5-year old can’t get enough hugs and kisses. He makes friends everywhere he goes. He has taught his family so much about compassion and unconditional love. “My little man NEVER gives up on life…so how dare I give up on him?” 


His parents are committed to giving their beautiful boy the best life possible. The family home has been remodeled to make it wheelchair friendly, including an elevator at the side of the house. “Anthony is here for a reason. We might not know why this tragedy happened or why he is here, but his story is not finished yet and is still continuing.”



Story By Elaine Yong

Faith & Joy's Story

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These Tiny Light twins could not have been more appropriately named. Meet Faith and Joy. These sisters were born premature at 23 weeks and 5 days. Faith weighed 1.6 lb and Joy 1.7 lb. They each underwent heart surgery at 2.5 weeks old, weighing less than 2 lb each. Now two years old, Faith and Joy love being read to and watching In the Night Garden. 


Both girls now have cerebral palsy. Joy is parapelgia and Faith is hemipelgia. This means that Joy has it throughout her body and Faith just in part of her body. Joy's CP diagnosis came about four months and Faith six months after their six-month NICU stay. While no one was surprised, it was devastating. Faith and Joy’s parents were told that their daughters had a 4% chance to live if they made it past the first 24 hours. “We are so grateful and thankful to have them both here with us. We will take them anyway we can get them!”  


The hardest part of the journey is the fact that they don’t know what is coming next. The girls have limited range to be able to do very much. Joy will most likely be in a wheelchair due to her inability to be mobile. Faith will likely need a walker, or she may also require a wheelchair like her sister. The girls’ mom only wishes that her girls will both accept who they are and be happy with themselves. She doesn’t have fears, as the girls have already overcome so many obstacles that she is certain they will be able to overcome anything handed to them.  


“As long as you have Faith, in the end you will have Joy!” 


Story by Angela Stephen-Dewhurst 

Meet Jamie

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Meet Tiny Light Jamie!  This sweet two-year-old has an amazing ability to make people smile.  She loves playing with her cousins and spending time with her grandparents.  Jamie has her Daddy tied tightly around her finger!

When Jamie’s Mom was 20 weeks pregnant, it was discovered that Jamie has Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome.  This means that the aorta and left ventricle are very small, and that the aortic and mitral valves are either too small to allow sufficient blood flow or are closed all together.  As blood returns from the lungs to the left atrium, it must pass through and atrial septal defect to the right side of the heart.

Jamie’s parents were devastated at the diagnosis of their baby.  Still, they knew that this was their child, and they loved her regardless of any issues that she had. Jamie’s parents have had the hardest time seeing their sweet girl after surgeries, hooked up to machines. But they remind themselves that it’s all to help Jamie.

Jamie’s parents encourage other families with ‘Heart Babies’ to live life day to day with their child, keeping their heads up.  “They may be ‘special’ but they are your ‘special’ child.”

Story by Angela Stephen-Dewhurst

Carson's Story

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That big beautiful smile hides a mischievous side of Tiny Light Carson.  Turns out this 6 year old is a thrill seeker who likes sledding and rides that spin.  And for his parents Ronan and Shyla, Carson’s journey has been a whirlwind too.


Three weeks before his due date, an ultrasound showed enlarged ventricles in Carson’s brain.  Shyla says, “The hardest time of our lives so far was when we were forced to contemplate what life would be like without our precious child while he fought to survive several life-threatening seizures and respiratory infections.”


It took four years and many genetic tests before doctors were able to diagnose his extremely rare condition.  Carson has 1q 44 terminal deletion, which means he is missing genetic material at the end of his 1^st chromosome.  He lives with a global developmental delay, a seizure disorder and a swallowing dysfunction that requires him to be fed through a tube.  


The family has not just survived, they have thrived.  Carson is loved by everyone who meets him and he serves as inspiration for the entire community.  This Tiny Light is making big strides – he just learned to walk in August.  His parents have big hopes for their affectionate son.  He now goes to school with his big brother…maybe they’ll graduate high school together down the road.  “We spent the first few years not daring to dream, but now we are strong and so is our vision for Carson’s future.”


Written by Elaine Yong

Brooke's Story

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Meet one-year-old Brooke.  This Tiny Light loves reading stories and loves her cats.  She loves being chased and tickled!  She has a crazy amount of energy, which is infectious to anyone and everyone around her!  Brooke is so sweet and has been a strong girl throughout her journey!

Brooke was born with Congenital Heart Disease.  She had two holes in her heart (AVSD), pulmonary stenosis, parachute mitral valve stenosis and tachycardia (a racing heart).  She underwent heart surgery at only three months old to repair the two holes.  As if being new parents is not overwhelming enough, Brooke's parents were quickly learning the ins and outs of the medical system.

Brooke's parents wish for a future with no further heart surgeries, something that is uncertain at this time.  They trust the medical system and are provided huge amounts of comfort by this trust; because of this system, they still have their daughter.  While the thought of possible future surgeries are a constant worry, Brooke's parents do not let it get them down.  "We just have to look at her with her ball of energy, and she reminds us to live in the present!"

Story By Angela Stephen- Dewhurst

Benjamin's Story

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Meet Tiny Light Benjamin!  A mighty trooper!  Ben brings love and joy to those he meets.  Ben gives amazing cuddles, and his mom looks forward to their “treasured cuddle time.” Ben is a curious boy who loves to play with trains, computers, puzzles and videogames.  Dubbed “Puzzle piece kid,” Ben can master puzzles right-side-up or up-side-down!  WOW!  Mom says, “Ben is Ben, and he is the best!”


Doctors have been left baffled at times, researching and testing Benjamin, looking for a fitting diagnosis that best describes his needs, as well as the treatment and support that will support his needs.  Multi-challenged, ADHD, global delay and autism spectrum are just a few of the diagnoses that have been discussed at this point.  However, there is no cookie cutter diagnosis that fits right now.


At just two years old, Ben has endured and struggled with epileptic seizures.  They are investigating his seizures with hopes that they will be able to suppress them in the future, but there is much fear and uncertainty of the damage that these seizures have already caused.  To have some control of the seizures and to ultimately be seizure free would be a gift. 


Heartbreaking struggles and the feeling of helplessness overwhelm Mom on a daily basis.  However, there are always reasons to celebrate his success and growth.  Despite the challenges Ben faces, he conquers each day and brings sunshine to those who know and love him.  Mom knows that Ben is in her life for so many reasons.  Ben’s journey has made his mom a stronger person, and has given her the firm belief to learn, read, educate yourselves, seek support and advocate for your child. 


Story by:  Leah Nahirnick

Jack's Story

Images Captured by Haley Lorraine

Meet Tiny Light Jack.  This three-year-old is a huge ‘Bob the Builder’ fan who loves going walks, playing and running in the park, listening to music, and, most of all, being in the company of others.


Jack was diagnosed at 18 months of age with Autism after his parents noticed that he was not responding to his name, was losing motor skills, and did not seem aware of the people and activities happening around him.  His parents, Allison and Craig, struggled with “not knowing how severe it may get....not knowing if ever he would be able to ride a bike, have friends and play like any other child his age... to still live in uncertainty as to his outcome.”  But they keep hope alive, take the good days with the bad, and have learned much about “patience, kindness, gentleness, and self-control...but ultimately true love.”


In their efforts to support Jack as best they can, his parents have learned so much, such as surrounding themselves with positive people, keeping hopeful, and never giving up.  They hope for Jack to have a chance at doing everything that other kids his age get to experience, such as going to school and having positive relationships with others.  Allison and Craig are inspired in their daily lives by a quote: “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” 

Miranda's Story

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When you look at Miranda and see her positive attitude, you would never guess the trials she has endured.  Multiple medical diagnoses and life circumstances should have knocked her and her mother, Tamara, down; instead, those same circumstances have created a world of opportunity. 

At birth, Miranda was diagnosed with a Posteromedial Bow in her left tibia and fibula, in addition to a leg length discrepancy. Her leg has been re-shaped and lengthened 7 cm through ten surgeries and an Illizarov Frame. As if that was not enough, Miranda’s dad passed away from a heart attack caused by Familial Hypercholesterolemia (FH) leaving Tamara as a single mom. Since FH is a genetic disorder, Miranda was tested and was found to have the same condition.  When Miranda was in grade six, she developed a kidney stone as a result of Hypercalciuria, a condition that causes excessive calcium excretion.  On the journey to finding out what was making Miranda so sick, she was also diagnosed with Pectus Excavatum (a Latin term meaning hollow chest) and scoliosis (where a person’s spine is curved from side to side).  She is currently awaiting an echocardiography to determine the severity of her newly diagnosed Mitral Valve Prolapse (the displacement of an abnormally thickened mitral valve leaflet into the left atrium during systole). 

Despite her multiple diagnoses, Miranda is fearless and continues to swim, write and enjoys art and school.  Her favorite subjects are Science and English. She has recently signed up for a yoga class with her friends, and is looking forward to it. 

Tamara’s advice to other parents going through the same thing is that even though you expect your child to be perfect and healthy, once you start down another path, you deal with it and it becomes part of your life. Miranda says that she finds it hard when everything seems to happen all at once and her illnesses start to interfere with her normal life.  She would like to let other kids with similar conditions know that it helps to talk to people, be around friends, and stay positive. 

Miranda is an inspiration to her mother because she is actually thankful for her many physical conditions! Because of her long stays in hospitals and exposure to the medical field, Miranda is medically inclined and has built a network of many types of people. “She was recently invited to speak to the nursing students at BCIT … to discuss her experiences and how nurses can have a positive approach towards their pediatric patients,” says Tamara. Perhaps one day, she will even become a pediatrician herself!

Miranda has written a guest blog for us it can be read here

Kayden's Story

Tiny Light Kayden could be Lady Gaga’s youngest fan. He’s not even 3 years old yet, but he would make the superstar proud – behind the beautiful smile, this little boy has a thing for shoes. Every time he goes into a store and sees shoes, he wants a new pair!

Kayden has already defied the odds. He has a very rare complex congenital heart disease called Right Atrial Isomerism. His heart has five defects including a large hole between the chambers, and he was born with no spleen. Kayden was diagnosed at the 20 week ultrasound, heartbreaking news for first-time parents Jennifer and Steve.  They were told only two children a year in Canada are born with this condition. The survival rate is 50%.

Though doctors are unsure of Kayden’s future, he is healthy right now. At 8 days old, he underwent risky open-heart surgery. Just a week and a half later, his mom and dad took him home. “He has been through so much but always has a smile on his face.” Kayden is on daily medication for his heart and to fight infection due to having no spleen. He will need another open heart surgery within the next year.

This Tiny Light is too young to understand his heart issues, but his mom and dad tell him he has a special heart. Kayden isn’t letting anything slow him down – he loves playing outside, or having fun with his toy cars and tricycle.  “I hope he lives a good life no matter how long it may be.”

Written by Elaine Yong

Meet Maggie and Molly

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Molly loves to play dress up, play with her babies, make crafts, sing and dance; her sister Maggie is also a fabulous dancer and singer.

Molly has a general diagnosis of hypotonia with an additional diagnosis of Spastic Paraplegia, although it has yet to be confirmed.  A major frustration for her parents was the lack of further opinions on Molly’s condition, resulting in sleepless nights waiting for test results and not knowing whether she was living with a threatening illness.  It has been an ongoing process trying to determine where Molly’s symptoms are stemming from.

Maggie’s diagnosis is Autistic Disorder; their reaction to this was sadness and disbelief in the beginning.  Their parents have experienced every emotion from fear, then relief.  Sadness then gratitude. Anger then joy.  The hardest part of Maggie’s journey for her parents has been wondering what the future holds for her.  “You imagine your children’s lives and never in a million years do you expect to have to think about saving for them because they may not be able to support themselves.”

As their daughters overcome each individual challenge they are faced with, Molly and Maggie’s parents are amazed at how they are each thriving and what phenomenal little people they have become.  They love to hug each other, a tell tale sign to their mom that everything will be okay because no matter what, they will always have each other.  Each day, Molly and Maggie surprise their parents at what they can accomplish, giving them tremendous hope. 

Advice they have to give: Never, ever blame yourself or feel guilty; you have to learn how not to feel sorry for yourself or for your children.  They also feel that they have learned a lot about themselves, their marriage and their relationships with their extended family.  Instead of focusing on the negative, the girls’ family choose to celebrate the fun times which for them means trips to Disney World.   “Wish it, dream it, do it!”

Story by Kristi Hall-Busque