Gregor's Story


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Meet Tiny Light Gregor. Now that he is able to sit independently, there is no stopping him as he scoots around on the floor. He sure is curious and is always testing to see if you’re watching because he loves to get into everything! A few of this toddler's favourite things to play with are the cupboards, toilets and the dog’s dish. If Gregor was in charge of planning his day it would include: swimming, playing ball, reading books, music, dancing, and of course playing with his big sister Brynn. These two share a very special bond.

Gregor has Down syndrome. When he was born, he had to be resuscitated. His heart had a small hole and he had pulmonary hypertension. His patent ductus arteriosus, a blood vessel that is supposed to close over soon after birth, didn't close. Thankfully, all those issues have resolved over time but Gregor's medical problems did not end there. At 9 months, he became one of the youngest patients ever to be diagnosed with juvenile diabetes. He spent the next few months in and out of the hospital, battling various infections. Just before his first birthday, Gregor went into kidney failure from interstitial tubular nephritis. On top of all that, this brave boy was diagnosed with high-risk acute lymphoblastic leukemia in October 2010. After a year of chemotherapy treatments, Gregor is in remission. Now the three year old is not only surviving, but thriving.

The medical journey has been challenging for the family. Children with Down syndrome are at greater risk of heart complications, especially frightening for parents Duncan and Melanie. Their first son Bergen passed away from a very rare congenital heart disease when he was just eight months old. With Gregor, diabetes means a complicated daily routine of testing glucose and administering insulin. Plus, there are still two and a half years of chemotherapy ahead.

But Gregor is not only surviving, he is thriving. This amazing little man redefines what it means to be a hero. He was the honored hero for the Leukemia Lymphoma Society’s Team in Training campaign for 2011. Gregor has a love for life. He is strong and cheerful, his lips always curled into a smile. Sit with this Tiny Light and be prepared to cuddle! “When he rests his head on your shoulders he reaches up and plays with your hair. He is so full of love for everyone.” 

written by Tara Anderson

T.J's Story



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Meet TJ, a. strong little man who always keeps smiling despite everything that he has endured. When TJ was six months old, his parents knew something was wrong. While he wasn't progressing at all, his doctors tried to reassure them that all babies progress at different rates. But by the time TJ was 18 months old, he was developmentally only 6 months old, and after seeing a neurologist, they determined that he had cerebral palsy and a global delay. 


It was devastating for his parents to never hear their child speak, to never know how he is feeling, and to not hear him say the words "I love you."  And through this, they've learned to not take things for granted. They say that the most amazing thing through this has been seeing how children around him have grown more compassionate and curious to learn about children like TJ, and seeing people fall in love with his infectious laugh and handsome smile. His mom says, "I am inspired by just how strong a person is inside of his little body. Despite all the pain he has endured with multiple surgeries, he just keeps smiling. I swear, he even comes into the recovery room smiling!" 


TJ is very close to his best friend, his Grampie, who is the only person who hears what TJ is saying without even saying a word. They have a special bond that simply cannot be explained. 


His parents constantly worry about TJ and what his future holds, but they know that his brother and sister will advocate for him and love him. They hope that he will grow up being happy, healthy, and being accepted by others. TJ's mom sums up her feelings with this quote she often uses to describe her thoughts, "Motherhood is about raising and celebrating the child you have, not the child you thought you would have. It's about understanding that he is exactly the person he is supposed to be. And that, if you're lucky, he just might be the teacher who turns you into the person you are supposed to be." 
And so far, TJ is proving to be the best teacher. 


Story by Jag Nagra